SACRIFICE-NEVAH WAS..NEVAH IS & NEVAH WILL BE NOBLE

Yesterday someone on a television show was asked-why Indian women is the perfect bride?- they said-cos she is the epitome of SACRIFICE! love n blah blah..but d old ladies quite stressed of how important it is for us to sacrifice in life-cos its noble n it sure did gather lot of appreciation from the crowd.
Theres was a big fight in my understanding this concept on sacrifice-1.Thesis-Sacrifice is a dirty word.Reason-As a kid d only thing dat quickly came to my mind when dis word was uttered was d age old custom of people sacrificing thr animals to dieties-to make them happy..to shower them with prosperity..those morons have been parasites quite clearly-why it was called a sacrifice cos perhaps till d last minute d animals every struggling move is like a silent moan-"LET ME LIVE...DONT KILL ME!" To some extent d situation is better today for animals..But we humans as usual have dis knack of spoiling things one step beyond- we still have sacrifices happening-just dat nobody realises perhaps them to be one n even if dey do dey r too scared to believe it-thats becos dese sacrifices r asked by none other than d most trusted n dear ones.I have a problem-if they claim dat dey truly love us-then why r we required to sacrifice anythng.A mother who has been aspiring her favourite bag from quite a while has to make choice between dat & her hungry childs meal-wud she even consider a minute to think wht shud be her pick? she loves her baby to the extent dat giving up on d bag wont be called a SACRIFICE! If someone has to stay awake all night to do their incomplete work-something dey truly love-dey wont say oh i burned so many of my nights!!duh..the only people who can "sacrifice" easily r perhaps who have nuthng worth to hold on to.
If theres anybody asking u to give up on something u so dearly love- take all ur courage..pick ur sandles up..activate ur sympathetics in body-n RUNNNNNNN..run for your life..no matter from whom d word comes from..Its not love dat dey do-its corruption in disguise-dey have clearly polluted d entire concept of love!If someones asking for one-it means d person is sitting at d other end to collect those sacrifices..& he/she is too niave to dis concept of love..Whatever we do in d name of love is nevah spoken off-d moment u utter d sacrifices you have to make d importance goes away.If you love something-everythng comes naturally-& sacrifice wud be such a dirty word to attach to anythng as pure as it..If something is so important to u -u not jus care and defend it-u shud love it to d extent dat u let go off d tendency to self harm too.Thats d only way to love d rest is all emotional atyachar-human weaknesses or whtever...anything but LOVE..
So Indian Bride-if "Sacrifice" is your excuse for Selfrespect-i see you only as a pioneer of dishonest n mediocre relationships-such a bride can least likely be perfect!